I think Gentleman are ignored by Ladies because the Ladies have a deep rooted fear of... "Is That All There is?" (a haunting song from the 60's or 70's, I forgot who sings it)

At least when a lady courts a guy who's initially exciting, and perhaps less gentlemanly, there's always the mistaken belief by the lady that over time she will "settle him down", kind of like saddling a wild horse.

Agree or disagree?